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	<title>Comments on: Never  a Harsh Word</title>
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	<description>Writer. Home Cook Extraordinaire.</description>
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		<title>By: Jenn</title>
		<link>http://www.brookeparkhurst.com/2006/07/25/never-a-harsh-word/comment-page-1/#comment-1912</link>
		<dc:creator>Jenn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Aug 2006 22:39:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love the Southern Belle simper we seem to get away with. I meet so many female students who are nervous as all get out about talking to their professors. I just tell them, &quot;Honey, you&#039;re a Southern girl and these professors are Northerners. You should know how to melt them by now!&quot; We all laugh about it, but it&#039;s true!! I use it on my Yankee friend all the time. He told me once he never understood why everytime I spoke to him I seemed to be complimenting him. If he was having a bad day at work, &quot;Well, they just don&#039;t realize how important you are to them. You just let them know it and if they don&#039;t believe you, you have &#039;em call me. I&#039;ll give &#039;em whatfor.&quot; He said the idea that I could tell anyone off is humorous. &quot;You&#039;re so nice and sweet!&quot; I told him that was the Melanie. But I told if I gave him the full-on Scarlett it would curl his toes. :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love the Southern Belle simper we seem to get away with. I meet so many female students who are nervous as all get out about talking to their professors. I just tell them, &#8220;Honey, you&#8217;re a Southern girl and these professors are Northerners. You should know how to melt them by now!&#8221; We all laugh about it, but it&#8217;s true!! I use it on my Yankee friend all the time. He told me once he never understood why everytime I spoke to him I seemed to be complimenting him. If he was having a bad day at work, &#8220;Well, they just don&#8217;t realize how important you are to them. You just let them know it and if they don&#8217;t believe you, you have &#8216;em call me. I&#8217;ll give &#8216;em whatfor.&#8221; He said the idea that I could tell anyone off is humorous. &#8220;You&#8217;re so nice and sweet!&#8221; I told him that was the Melanie. But I told if I gave him the full-on Scarlett it would curl his toes. <img src='http://www.brookeparkhurst.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Beth</title>
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		<dc:creator>Beth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Jul 2006 16:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Who doesn&#039;t love that southern accent. I&#039;m making note of these quotes...and will surely use them next time I have a cocktail outting. For shits and giggles, if anything..because I sure as hell will sound like a total moron. You Southerners have it down, I must say.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Who doesn&#8217;t love that southern accent. I&#8217;m making note of these quotes&#8230;and will surely use them next time I have a cocktail outting. For shits and giggles, if anything..because I sure as hell will sound like a total moron. You Southerners have it down, I must say.</p>
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		<title>By: Chelsea Kaplan, Mom</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chelsea Kaplan, Mom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Jul 2006 05:45:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m a Southerner living in DC (which people say is the South - HA!), and love your blog! I also spoke about this sort of thing in my most recent blog entry - check it out - you&#039;ll TOTALLY understand it!

Keep it up!

 - Chelsea
www.rumymother.blogspot.com</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m a Southerner living in DC (which people say is the South &#8211; HA!), and love your blog! I also spoke about this sort of thing in my most recent blog entry &#8211; check it out &#8211; you&#8217;ll TOTALLY understand it!</p>
<p>Keep it up!</p>
<p> &#8211; Chelsea<br />
<a href="http://www.rumymother.blogspot.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.rumymother.blogspot.com</a></p>
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		<title>By: vousetespenible</title>
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		<dc:creator>vousetespenible</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Jul 2006 23:21:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You are right. You Southern ladies do make everything sound so sweet.

P.S. it&#039;s spelled &quot;lewd&quot; (not &quot;lude&quot;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are right. You Southern ladies do make everything sound so sweet.</p>
<p>P.S. it&#8217;s spelled &#8220;lewd&#8221; (not &#8220;lude&#8221;)</p>
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		<title>By: Hattigrace</title>
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		<dc:creator>Hattigrace</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Jul 2006 03:54:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My maiden sur name was Ralph.  i grew up in Michigan.  Can you imagine how much I was joked about?  &quot;Raaaaaaaalph, what kind of a last name is THAT?&quot;  

Then I move to NC.  &quot;Ra-Yol-Uph, wha&#039; kinda last name is tha-yat?&quot; 

Yea, you&#039;re onto something!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My maiden sur name was Ralph.  i grew up in Michigan.  Can you imagine how much I was joked about?  &#8220;Raaaaaaaalph, what kind of a last name is THAT?&#8221;  </p>
<p>Then I move to NC.  &#8220;Ra-Yol-Uph, wha&#8217; kinda last name is tha-yat?&#8221; </p>
<p>Yea, you&#8217;re onto something!!!</p>
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		<title>By: In Penury Parvenu</title>
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		<dc:creator>In Penury Parvenu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Jul 2006 22:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>North Carolina&#039;s got good pig.  

What?  That&#039;s what &lt;I&gt;I&lt;/I&gt; learned on &lt;I&gt;my&lt;/I&gt; North Carolina vacation.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>North Carolina&#8217;s got good pig.  </p>
<p>What?  That&#8217;s what <i>I</i> learned on <i>my</i> North Carolina vacation.</p>
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		<title>By: Leigh</title>
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		<dc:creator>Leigh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Jul 2006 21:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You&#039;re definitely onto something B. It&#039;s just like when we Southern women say &quot;Bless her heart...&quot; You could add anything to the end of that statement and make it sound sweet as molasses.

i.e., &quot;Bless her heart...she&#039;s got more rolls than a bakery...&quot;

xo, L</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You&#8217;re definitely onto something B. It&#8217;s just like when we Southern women say &#8220;Bless her heart&#8230;&#8221; You could add anything to the end of that statement and make it sound sweet as molasses.</p>
<p>i.e., &#8220;Bless her heart&#8230;she&#8217;s got more rolls than a bakery&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>xo, L</p>
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		<title>By: Another twentysomething</title>
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		<dc:creator>Another twentysomething</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Jul 2006 20:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If only we could all pull it off! But I believe you ARE on to something with that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If only we could all pull it off! But I believe you ARE on to something with that.</p>
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